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...is the pinnacle of life TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP? i'm not understanding why every Joe-Blow that isn't even responsible enough to keep up with a PREPAID phone bill thirsts to be responsible for the feelings of a living, breatheing being! that's not a very good comparison, Darion. isn't it? i mean, you get into a relationship (i.e. you have a key to his/her apartment, possible joint account, exclusivity, etc) and you're basically assuming a commitment to, from lack of a better term "hold that person down." if you can't so much as pay a bill on time or when you "get depressed" you have to go on an OUTRAGEOUS, UNPLANNED shopping spree to feel better then how do you have the RANK AUDACITY to feel you should be or are SUITED to be in a relationship?!?! you can't even take care of yourself!!!! [throws hands in the air] are you referring to a particular person, Darion? no. excuse my French, but i think it's a fucking PANDEMIC! and CHECK WRITING....AS A PROFESSION?!?!?! are you kidding me? what archaic MORON still writes checks?! i mean, seriously you'd have to feel stupid actually standing there writing the check!! furthermore, WHO STILL ACCEPTS CHECKS?! OMG! check writing? yes, what African-Americans educated in slang refer to as "stuntin!" write a check in Iowa for merchandise then return it in Atlanta. cash in hand, but let's not get off topic. it sounds like you take offense to these things because you have experienced them on an interpersonal level. not actually, [turns nose up] but i have more rant on the same topic. [smiles] i don't like people that have a blatant disregard for the feelings of others. go on. you meet someone, develop a bond with them, start sleeping with them and then all of a sudden you don't want to see them again with no explanation. i know that can't POSSIBLY make an inkling of sense to even the simplest of minds. [looks up to the left] wait, it actually does make sense because they were only after one thing, clearly. however comma why develop a bond then, expunge it without consideration or at least RESPECT for the bond (to say THE LEAST), but then that same person (when asked later about said incident) will make up extravagant, melodramatic lies about the person to appease to another! Darion, it sounds like you should take more careful consideration into whom you surround yourself with. i have. [smiles] i guess i just wish some people would GROW UP.